A minimalist is defined as a person who keeps things very simple and likes simple gestures and ideas. They believe in the simplicity of life and in the practical focus of what we really value and not what we don’t need. Minimalism is all about living with fewer material things so you can have more space for memories and live with more heart, passion, and joy.
If you’ve wanted to change your routine and space a bit and are looking to enjoy life with less ‘stuff,’ here are easy steps for how to be a minimalist.
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1. Address your underlying issues.
Before decluttering everything or getting rid of some of your stuff, think about why you’re doing this. It’s not because you’re making room for more stuff. It’s because doing so frees up time, money, energy, and space for things that actually matter to you. It’s not all about ‘stuff’ — it’s about making positive changes to your life that will help you have more time and money to spend on experiences in life. Murthy suggests you be real with yourself and ask yourself some serious questions. “What’s more important to you?” Murthy asks. “Your loved ones, connections, conversations, good times, fun times or cleaning, counting, dusting, tidying, keeping track of things, and to-do lists?”
2. Get to know the minimalist rules and set your own.
In order to make a positive change, you need to familiarize yourself with minimalism rules and then decide and write down your own rules. One of the most important rules is learning all about living with intention and deciding what you’ll allow into your minimalist life. Align all the things that you have in life with what matters most to you. You get to decide your own definition of minimalism. Make a list of reasons why you want to make this change and then start to set goals for yourself like decluttering and thinking about how you can make your lifestyle more simple.
3. Start fresh with a clean slate.
In order to see all the material things that you have, you have to start with a deep cleaning of your entire apartment or house. Marie Kondo everything in your place. Separate into categories of things you need and things you want, and get rid of the rest. Minimalism is all about maximizing your space and this is the perfect way to do this. When doing this, you can also get rid of any duplicate items you might have that you don’t use but just have. You can keep some sentimental items but make sure it’s only things you really can’t live without. According to Keya Murthy, a Clinical Hypnotherapist and Spiritual Life coach, you shouldn’t hold onto things you think you might or will use in the future because if you don’t use them now, you probably won’t in the future. “Things that have memories attached to them, will weigh you down, will slow you down, will hold you back in life,” Murthy explains. “If you want to live in light then live light.” Of course, the tough part is deciding what’s worth keeping and what you need to part with. “To make things less stressful, box things you’re not sure about and set them aside. List the items in the box on the outside so if you do need them, you can find them and pull them out,” suggests Occupational Therapist Judith Pinto. “If you never go looking for these things in the next 6 months or year and don’t miss them, you probably don’t need them and they could be sold, donated, or gifted.”
4. Stop shopping and keep only fashion staples.
You might have the urge to go shopping one last time before you start your minimalism journey. However, minimalism is about simplifying the stuff you already have. Therefore you would be breaking your own rules if you were to go out shopping one more time. Create a capsule wardrobe that includes one pair of perfect-fitting jeans, one pair of black trousers, one pair of sneakers, and flats. Try to keep one of everything that you actually wear so you’ll get good use out of it. Keep the quality well-made clothes that you know are going to last and get rid of anything else you don’t need or wear anymore. RELATED: 8 Lifestyle Tips For Starting Over Fresh
5. Create a no-clutter zone.
Make sure when minimalizing your space that you start small and then grow. Don’t overwhelm yourself with getting everything done at once. According to Pinto, start towards a minimalist lifestyle the way you would make any lifestyle change: slowly, gradually, and with the easiest things first. “If you’re super attached to your book collection, don’t begin there! Frankly, you may choose to never ‘minimize’ your book collection. It doesn’t have to be all or nothing,” Pinto says. Declare an area that you don’t want any clutter to pile up and then start spreading that area to other parts of your home so you can gradually become more minimalist within your space. For example, start with your kitchen table or your nightstand. Make sure it’s clear and clean, and do your best to avoid letting clutter pile up there. “You may want to start with selling, donating, or gifting items you never use, don’t like, and only keep out of some sense of obligation or ‘just in case’ you could use it. But don’t toss things you do need, value and use. Be realistic,” says Pinto. Then, when you have the time, start expanding to other areas like the bathroom, living room, and eventually your bedroom. Learning how to be a minimalist in your own home can also teach you how cleaning is actually therapeutic and helps you de-stress a bit. “Minimalism is about spending your time (and hard-earned money) buying, maintaining, and repairing things that matter to you and add value to your life. It’s about intentional living,” explains Pinto. “So think of minimalism as a way to focus on — keeping and making more space and time for — what matters and less about getting rid of things.”
6. Organize everything.
With minimalism, you want to keep things simple. After you have decluttered you want to organize your possessions. It’s important to organize by category when going through your house because that way you’re able to find duplicate items that you forgot you saved and by getting rid of them, that can help free up space. A good rule of thumb is keeping two or three of everything. This could be a couple of towels, sheets, pillows. Try not to have too much of one household item.
7. Travel lightly.
This is the ultimate test for a minimalist as overpacking is something a lot of people struggle with. Packing lighting saves you both money and time as you won’t have to worry about carrying around a heavy bag or suitcase or paying for a checked bag on a plane. The best rule of thumb is if you are traveling for four days, only pack for two. That way you can just wear your clothes again or hand wash them and hang them to dry the next day.
8. Don’t judge yourself or others.
When learning to become a minimalist don’t be too hard on yourself. It’s going to take time as it’s a major change you’re making in your life. Self-judgement isn’t going to get you anywhere. “Minimalism can be bad if you get sucked into all-or-nothing thinking and get rid of things that add purpose, meaning, and value to your life. Do it your way,” says Pinto. Similarly, once you have grasped the concept and start living a more minimalist lifestyle, it’s not fair to judge others for not being minimalists. Photo: YourTango RELATED: 6 Minimalistic Zodiac Signs For Whom Less Is Always More Megan Hatch is a writer at YourTango who covers news & entertainment, love & relationships, and internet culture. Follow her on Twitter and Instagram.
